Encourage your children to express themselves freely, even if it leads to tears or tantrums. It's crucial for them to feel secure enough to release any pent-up emotions and energy that don't align with their inherent love and nature.
As parents, our responsibility is to provide a safe environment where our children can embrace their true selves without causing harm to others or themselves.
Often, we instinctively try to silence our children because their energy triggers unresolved traumas within ourselves. Instead of stifling their expression, we should recognize this as a signal to address our own inner wounds and create a healing space for ourselves. By doing so, we become more present for both ourselves and our children.
The relationship between parent and child is profoundly influenced by the dynamics of transference and projection. It's a journey of self-awareness and growth for both parties involved. Nigel Lott teaandzen.org